To COMPROMISE isn’t WEAKNESS but rather an easy way into
having harmony and stability for a long time. (Click here and tweet this) Many at times, our
emotions cannot be trusted and sometimes they deceive us. The only bulwark we
have against the sudden urge of our emotions is the art of compromising. Why? It
will allow you to ponder and reflect on the “what ifs” of any relationship. It’s
equal to strategizing for the long haul. Interestingly, you don’t have to win
it all in order to make a point.
To concede that you don’t know it all, haven’t got all the
answers and cannot to everything to enhance the relationship is an act of
compromise. (Click here and tweet this). This sort isn’t the one which leaves the relationship
vulnerable but rather strengthens it. Never forget relationship begets other
relationships thus learning how to adapt to differences will be good for the
long haul.
Being headstrong will only lead to your ruin. People who
always insist on being either the best or right never make it past the initial
relationship. (Click here and tweet
this). Not everything should make sense to you before you give in or decide to
amend certain aspects of your relationship. If the business associate has genuine
fears regarding a point, the wisest thing to do will be compromise. This will
allow for the pursuit of the main aim for which the business has been or is
being established. If the young man or woman believes a certain aspect of your
lifestyle will ruin the relationship you have, it will be great to compromise.
As I mature in age and experience, I have realised that you
will only go higher in life with strategic compromises. (Click here and tweet this). No great leader can
wholeheartedly say they didn’t or haven’t compromised in order to push through
a policy or something of that sort. They all learn how to compromise positively
and sometimes negatively in the course of their leadership lifecycle.
Life is full of compromises and it’s the way God created
humanity for co-existence. (Click here
and tweet this). Never let go of your
core points entirely in a relationship but learn to amend or better still
rewrite it in order for the other to feel worthy to be part of the chosen cause.
Pride, self –conceit and arrogance will be the voice that will speak against
your intention to compromise. Watch out for them because they come out strong
when a person decides to give in and let all win at the end of the day.
Question: Is it easy
to compromise? Kindly leave your comments on the blog.
Yours In His Service
Joe Akuoko II
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